Here is exactly how you can tip the scales in your favor and make dating an older man a rewarding experience!Befriend The Boyfriend First The sensible thing to do starting out is to first develop an honest friendship with the older man you are dating.
As the chronological age differences may or may not cause gaps in these spheres, after which of course one must most certainly look for the presence of a good mutual physical attraction, especially since an age difference can have just as much of an effect on people’s sexual preferences.
All aspects greatly matter if a mature and serious long term relationship is what you are looking for, eventually leading to marriage. Exercise patience, as older men are a lot less impulsive and may leave you guessing at times.
And the up side to their apparent reserve is their comparatively demonstrative behavior in private.
Set Expectations Right State your goals clearly from the start once the intentions from both sides match.
If you are dating with the intent of settling down, let your partner know exactly that, and conversely, if you are dating an older man simply for variety, make that also equally clear, to avoid getting his hopes up.
Don’t Be Frivolous Be more responsible as older men tend to be more successful than their much younger counterparts and also do not particularly appreciate frivolous behavior, as they tend not to be frivolous themselves.Make sincere efforts to connect well with an older man on the emotional and intellectual level first.‘I need someone older and wiser, telling me what to do’ - unforgettable lines sung unforgettably by Julie Andrews in the equally unforgettable movie ‘Sound of Music’.If what Julie Andrews crooned then is currently your theme song, chances are you are wise enough to know what obvious advantages there are to dating older men.Greater confidence, a more developed personality, and a mature attitude to life are some of the obvious attributes that easily appeal to women.So why not be prepared with a few cards up your sleeve too, and shoot off some sharp arrows in case cupid strikes in the form of an older man?