here’s a “sort of” rule in dating – “Never Tell A Man You Like Him.” Except in the real world of dating rules are sometimes meant to be broken or they are at least designed to be slightly altered to fit the situation or need.
Lots of them just don’t get it and they fail to notice the subtleties you might believe are not subtle at all. So yes…Sticking to this rule and remembering the exception I pointed out above can lead you to a better more secure man.
Okay if you’ve dated for a while and his actions prove without a doubt he likes you, but he appears to question you liking him back, I say go ahead make it known… You might have to go through more men or go on more dates but I feel it’s worth it. This is a hard truth – and I suppose it’s only hard for men because I’m asking you to let go of so many men who just don’t get it…
Be clever, creative, and make sure you “moderately” appeal to his “ego.” I’m not telling you to devote yourself to him or declare your absolute love for him. That depends on what type of guy you’re looking for and how far you’re willing to take it. If he does not show signs of understanding women on a whole he will not suddenly get it three years down the relationship.
I’m merely asking you to turn up the hints and let it be known. And don’t question him, push him, or expect any response at all or you will push him away. You see “high quality” men or the ones with the most attractive personalities do not ever need to be told. He will only be reacting to what he understands is how you act. Remember this about relationships and how they grow…
Which leads me to ask you a very important question… Remember that stupid little paper or petal game so many girls played growing up…?
and you are seeking approval from a source outside yourself.
You’re living out a childhood game which was fine when we didn’t understand our emotions and how to deal with them, but as an adult only proves itself to delay success in meeting the “ about you which is desirable it’s important to learn how to flirt better to attract more men.
You’re not learning how to train men, You’re learning how to better share your life with someone else. Unless you feel without a doubt he’s a great sincere man who just does not seem to get women but you want him anyways. Easy to understand but hard to determine when to implement it.
Truthfully I’ve known a couple of women who like to be the leader and they don’t mind being it. If you want a relationship with this type you may have to become the leader in the relationship and take charge.