Because there's another guy I have been talking to that I want to see before making a decision...
One of the best ways to confirm that they are who they say they are, is to have a web cam chat or video conversation via Skype or other chat IME. They rarely use wechat , whatsapp etc Scammers will often try to lure potential victims in by posting photos of beautiful people in their profile.
If the person refuses to have a online video chat with you, then it’s possible that they look nothing like their real profile photo.
If on the other hand, they do accept the invitation to Skype video chat with you, this is the perfect opportunity to check out their story in real-time.
Someone recently wrote in a comment, " a serious guy doesn't get physical with a girl." What are your thoughts about this? For example, talking about love at first sight, people end up making out and might even end up getting intimate right away, so why wouldn't the guy's intentions be considered serious?
Now I'm Wondering I met a guy from an online dating site, we met up for coffee.
A couple of hours later we went out for a walk and after some talking he ended up kissing me.
I kissed back and we made out for a while (he touched my boobs at a certain point by putting his hands under my top and tried doing the same with my pants - I didn't let him touch me there though because I just wasn't ready)... Then once I was at home he texted me saying that he wanted to start a relationship with me, I was like I want to see you again and I want to kiss you but do you think you could wait?
Ask questions related to what they’ve already shared with you via their profile and other text correspondence.
If they are telling you the truth, they should be able to answer your questions without difficulty and appear comfortable doing so.
If you already use Skype, I suggest that you set up a new Skype profile for online dating.
Set up the new account so that it does not give away personal information such as your surname, birthdate or the city in which you reside.