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What is the point of getting your ex back if you can’t keep them PERMANENTLY?
My name is Kevin, and I am here to help you through this painful breakup and hopefully get your ex back.
I say hopefully because I can’t guarantee you that you will get your ex back. I have done so because this way you have a step by step plan that you can follow to get your ex back.
I can, however, guarantee that if you follow this plan, your chances of getting your ex boyfriend or ex girlfriend back will increase significantly. It’s important to have a plan to follow, because after a breakup you are hurt, emotionally drained and most of all, confused.
I really love him and want to be with him, but I don’t understand why he is acting like this. That’s the story of around 80% of the people who are desperate to get their ex back.
It’s a huge mistake to text and call your ex all the time.
In fact, it’s a huge mistake to call them even once.
And during this state of confusion, you are bound to make a lot of mistakes that will actually hurt your chances of getting back together.
I have seen people make these mistakes over and over again (in my four years of experience helping people with breakups). I am glad you asked because the first part of this guide is precisely about these mistakes.
Having a plan gives you a sense of direction and removes all the confusion. I call this part “The Instincts” because all these mistakes are a direct result of people following their instincts. Since then, I have messaged him everyday constantly and he barely replies.
A plan will give you something to look forward to when you are feeling down and unsure about yourself. I have to text him a hundred times before he replies just once.